Points of Light~ Leigh Anne Bianchi, Founder of Good Citizenship Project, Activating Good Citizens~Part Two

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I had the pleasure of interviewing Leigh Anne Bianchi, Founder of Good Citizenship Project recently on TSC Talks. She was joined by her business manager Carla Bell. We had a free-ranging discussion covering many topics but all regarding the benefits of the sort of unconventional programming Leigh Anne has developed through GCP and how this meets many of the huge gaping unmet needs for those individuals diagnosed with autism and other special needs that our systems of care have become too siloed and disconnected to address. “Developing a sense of meaning and purpose, social-emotional skills, work ethic, and peer relationships by volunteering, distributing donations, and supporting local farms.”

For more information on Good Citizenship Project, FB page: https://www.facebook.com/GoodCitizenshipProject/ phone: (508) 868-0293 email: leighanne.bianchi143@gmail.com

Timestamps for part 2:
0-52 Intro
00:54- Antonio’s Waitress Olivia treats them like humans, the start of the discussion on sexuality and special needs
2:26 All the PC of working w/special needs has made sexuality issues really challenging. People taken advantage of, they are developmentally younger and no one talks about this
5:03 Karaoke, real-world situations help
5:28 Dashboard confessionals, you can say stuff without eye contact when conversations about penises and vaginas come out. Pediatricians recommend using scientific wording, Leigh Anne took all the training on autism/special needs and sexuality and can talk candidly.
9:27 Why questions, keep asking them. So many lives could be ruined if everything is flagged as inappropriate. This population never gets to ask questions
11:06 Leigh Anne had to spend 5 minutes spend w/individual who had sex offender charges in ISP and Leigh Anne knew charges were not true-example
13:16 Paying for Good Citizenship Project….if you have an autism diagnosis, sometimes easier to get funding, agencies often don’t want to pick up those with autism but things changing and agencies can help you get funding to cover through DESE/Wraparound Family Services, Public Partnerships through Participant directed programming conduit, Private pay, PCA funds, DDS Family Respite funds
20:11 Leigh Anne should be paid more for all she offers. Charges $30/hour but will work with families. Leigh Anne does not have a BCBA or other letters after the name that would allow her to be recognized as a service agent but has the lived experience and work experience to exceed those with mere education
23:26 Becoming a non-profit would mean more strings attached, Johnny her horse would have to be certified as a therapy horse, her dog a pit bull mix, too many hoops to jump through. Jack couldn’t have used a log splitter!
26:31 Investor/philanthropist would be ideal with no strings attached. Leigh Anne took a chance w/Camp Marshall, wanting to partner and have it be her home base. If associated with an agency the volunteers would need to get paid. All benefits from GCP are not recognized as beneficial for many who don’t understand the depth of what she does.
31:31 Work to ride is an option or unpaid internship/apprenticeship. So much happens in learning these farm skills that is energetic…deciding how to perform tasks and learning from any mistakes, having the freedom to learn from mistakes like using a pitchfork instead of a shovel for a particular job…
34:21 Farmers giving the flexibility to figure out the approach to completing a job is helpful. So then it’s not regimented, can focus on the end results, not the niggling details and farmwork facilitates executive functioning in this area. Learning at the moment, the Montessori approach is part of Leigh Anne’s process
37:31 Give individual rules, allow them to screw up and figure it out is more powerful than reading how to do something in a book or being told what to do. Forced problem solving, you remember you had to take a different approach. This is empowering!
40:46 GCP NEEDS MONEY TO EXPAND! Fundraisers coming soon. Discussion of fundraisers
43:36 Looking for a home base with specific parameters. She needs to bring her animals. This has been challenging, small private barns are nervous to have special needs population-liability. Leigh Anne looking for a life in a caretaker position
46:21 Jack came in (Jill’s son who participates in GCP). Leigh Anne is looking for a situation where most of the labor at the new setting is done by members of the GCP. She screens applicants for a good match, meets parents and individuals, gives a grace period. Wants it known GCP is a for-profit not an agency.
49:01 But Leigh Anne is more than a job coach. The people she supports are part of her family. “So you want me to pay for you to force my kid to do slave labor” is some people’s attitude. No, they are learning transformative, resume-worthy skills.
51:11 Leigh Anne went to Salter College, able to be successful b/c was focused on one thing. There is real value in jobs that don’t require a degree. People do not see the scope of autism…Ford Motor Co was seeking to hire those on the Autism spectrum b/c of attention to detail/focus.
55:11 One of the goals of GCP is to raise awareness of what an autistic person looks like which has spread by word of mouth, inspiring others to think outside of the box in creating programs for this population. B/c of relationships developed through GCP, Leigh Anne has options-a temporary place to live if needed “if you do good things, they come back”. In our society many expect something in return for every little thing
60:11 Carla Bell is Leigh Anne’s business manager, helping her with a business plan and fundraising has worked in special ed
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Points of Light~Leigh Anne Bianchi, Founder of Good Citizenship Project, Activating Good Citizens~Part One

I had the pleasure of interviewing Leigh Anne Bianchi, Founder of Good Citizenship Project recently on TSC Talks. She was joined by her business manager Carla Bell. We had a free-ranging discussion covering many topics but all regarding the benefits of the sort of unconventional programming Leigh Anne has developed through GCP and how this meets many of the huge gaping unmet needs for those individuals diagnosed with autism and other special needs that our systems of care have become too siloed and disconnected to address. “Developing a sense of meaning and purpose, social-emotional skills, work ethic, and peer relationships by volunteering, distributing donations, and supporting local farms.”

In my opinion, what she shares are gems of vital importance. As someone who carries a diagnosis of Autism AND has worked within our siloed and disconnected systems of care, she gets it on a whole new level. What is missing, what is needed. One of her most important assets is her ability to ask why and watch, observe what is going on without judgment or preconceived notions based on dogmatic teachings not relevant to real life. Leigh Anne IS real life. She knows how what and why to reach and engage kids who have often had no one their entire lives really see them. The energetics of the interactions are often the most important part and the very part of our offspring with special needs education that is rarely observed or explored. To do so freely requires unconventional programming and thinking and IS what will give these individuals deeply embedded experience to carry forward and integrate into every aspect of their lives. Priceless.

So that being said, this is one of the most important discussions I’ve had to date on TSC Talks personally as my son Jack has benefitted immensely from participating in this sort of immersive, apprenticeship experience gaining valuable skills, both tangible and energetic. Here’s a recent description of gains made: “There’s A LOT going on there when we’re together. Not just the obvious, like physical fitness, and employment-based objectives, but Distress Tolerance, Mindfulness, Interpersonal Effectiveness, time management, generalizing skills, problem-solving…. learning how and when NOT to answer back to an authority figure. (Instead of saying, “I know,” or “I was going to do that,” when he clearly wasn’t, just saying “OK.”) We address that OFTEN. Staying on topic, being able to complete a task WHILE socializing….

Another example is planning. Looking at the task at hand (like cleaning a pen or stall) and being able to decide which tools you’re going to need (the pen might require a garden rake and a metal pitchfork, vs. an aluminum shovel and a plastic pitchfork for the stall), and how to efficiently complete the task. Right now, he tends to be on autopilot at Jesse’s, because he’s done it before, and knows what tools to use. But if we go to a different barn/farm, he will sometimes just walk into the stall without any tools or automatically grab the tools that he’d use as Jesse’s. But Jesse has brand-new rubber stall mats under the shavings, whereas other barns might have hard, packed-down dirt that is uneven, old, warped stall mats, or even slab cement under the shavings, which impacts the tools needed for the job. Additionally, the concept of ‘using your head to save your feet and planning out the technique or way you’re going to do something….like cleaning the stall of the older horse first so that you can put him in there to eat first since it takes him so long. Or, turning on the hose as you walk by it upon arrival, so you don’t have to go all the way back out to the spigot when you’re ready to fill waters” You get the idea. Enjoy the podcast!

For more information on Good Citizenship Project, FB page: https://www.facebook.com/GoodCitizenshipProject/     Phone: 508-868-0293 Email: leighanne.bianchi143@gmail.com

Time stamps~part one

0-4:22 Introduction/opening comments

4:22 Formative years, Grandpa Frank, early signs of autism, overlooked in educational settings, temper, frustrations, family supportive

6:42 Principal’s office, using a paddle, siblings with similarities

8:27 People on the spectrum are empathetic! Animals get it

9:52 Meeting Johnny-“he chose me”, a sucker for the underdog, …both dogs rescues, cats and house chicken!

12:12 Leigh Anne’s challenges-struggled through school, awareness of being different

12:47 Postgrad programs-infuriating and necessary-started with good intentions but people not honest with students about reality

14:57 4 years in post-grad almost wasted, doing worksheets, Leigh Anne shares story of a girl she worked with having to do preschool puzzles

17:02 Toileting-EIP avoided b/c it was assumed she was not going to ever use the toilet but Leigh Anne noticed underdeveloped musculature~ “It’s amazing what you can figure out if you just pay attention a little bit” BCBA determines the course of her future…. on a different track if cannot use the toilet!

17:10 we need more people like you who presume competence!

19:57 Leigh Anne can see birds-eye view on why the life skills programs are the way they are..too many kids, squeaky wheel/most intense needs, profound symptoms get attention and people with milder, more subtle issues fly under the radar

22:22 stop and look at why? Leigh Anne gives example with a woman from Belchertown-only thing she could control was her bowels so used incontinence … giving options and letting her choose and always asking WHY is this happening?

26:02 So many things were out of young lady’s control, diagnosis can be a tool and a knife that cuts both ways

27:32 having a diagnosis can be helpful if you can handle it…

28:37 Rose-colored glasses, person-first language, and the pendulum swung the other way for those turning 22. Leigh Anne thinks there should be required classes for parents, so they know what to expect when turning 22 and transitioning to adult services, etc.

32:29 Leigh Anne is UNCONVENTIONAL!! Caseloads at DDS extreme, high turnover, problems with adequate staffing in group homes

33:16 GCP (good citizenship project) Started when she was working as a program coordinator at Seven Hills, minimal consequences for behavior with not realistic environment. Folks turning 22 smart, capable wonderful kids with potential and no self-awareness skills, minimal options

37:32 Nonprofit/volunteering issues, for-profit volunteer issues, liability issues, not a lot of places for GCP so L.A. developed plan that you could not join GCP unless you had good attendance, no aggression, pitched to Phil Philbin (former head of Aspire) and GCP was started at Seven Hills

41:40 First event was a chili cook-off, building community relations, thanking firefighters, getting constructive feedback, also hosting Friendsgiving, kids did all the work

43:44 GCP-you do nice things for other people without expectation of anything in return” You feel good when you do good things, and it will come back to you

46:32 Info on finding GCP, see above, no requirements for joining, Leigh Anne’s rules0deal with circumstances, weather, not for faint of heart, hard work

49:26 Jack’s response to GCP amazing. “A taste of success” from Better Off Dead 😊 get instant rewards with animals and practice. Very empowering

55:07 Emu Jersey is goofy, no boundaries will nibble on the jacket, kids will allow b/c it’s not a person so a way to practice

58:09 Leigh Anne was a Case Manager, and she would never read up on clients b/c you form judgments

59:26 If you have a diagnosis and an IEP you’ve been taught how to judge first and think later

59:51 Leigh Anne wants members of GCP to have a sense of meaning and purpose, know how to speak up for themselves in an effective way

1:00:39 Jack, example fear of failing, etc

1:02:14 Unintended goals, squelching learned helplessness, parents often tired and will not give time for a child to learn on their own

1:05:02Farm a great template, you need to keep yourself safe, level of self-responsibility is required but they can find it!

1:07:09 Blend into neurotypical, Leigh Anne wants to give tools, so life is not so difficult. Examples shared

1:08:37 Restaurant example-this population is not used to choosing, having discussions at the restaurant, taking pressure off

Stay tuned for Part 2!

Points of Light~Bryan M. Henry, Founder of Together We Ascend-“Connected to Love”

In this episode titled “Connected to Love” I had the pleasure of interviewing Bryan M. Henry, Founder of Together We Ascend, an organization and community that is on the mission of assisting in collective ascension, and the co-creation of a more harmonious and prosperous world for all. To this aim, Bryan and the Together We Ascend team is uniting and activating lightworkers through the Ascend Academy. Bryan also is the Creator/Producer of “Awaken with Bryan Henry”~ a podcast.

Bryan is indeed connected to love and what he communicates in this podcast is just that, as well as how we all are connected to love in the deepest and most complete of ways. Giving others an assist in rediscovering this connection is what Bryan is called to do. I got the chance to learn this first hand when I came across his Ascend Academy almost a year ago and booked my first session with Bryan. From there our connection grew, and I have been working with him for the last seven months. The recent intuitive podcasting workshop evolved out of our work together.

Here’s one of Bryan’s opening statements, “so I know that you sent me a few preliminary questions to kind of prepare myself but I feel like the best thing I could have done to prepare my pair myself was to drop into here, and that chest region in that body to feel and rather than have some pre-scripted answer. Sure what felt most inspiring in this moment. Perfect. That feels like today is the story of a guy that loves to serve, loves to be in service of others loves to contribute, loves to witness transformation take place before his eyes. I’ve over the course of my journey have come to my perspectives, my beliefs around what goes into living a joyous, filling, and exciting life. And part of what that entails for me is being in service to something bigger than oneself. When I look back to all of my experiences, the accumulation of everything I’ve been through all of the best ones came from being connected to love and making it more about giving than getting. And the irony becomes when you find yourself centered in this space of wanting to give for you get to experience the joy and fulfillment that comes from that. You begin to realize that the giving and receiving are ultimately the same thing.”

Linktree: https://linktr.ee/bryanmhenry
Website: https://togetherweascend.com


Time stamps~
1:20 Introduction/opening statements
5:15 being in the moment, giving space for what comes through
9:38 challenges to staying in the moment when podcasting
10:30 Jill gives some background on Bryan’s recent move
12:47 Hard to believe I went through hard times
13:46 Bryan has had many experiences, both treacherous and benevolent-came to a core belief, we are of love
15:59 In order to tap into this, there is a whole lot of stuff that needs to be released
17:15 devoting work to helping others discover this love within themselves and that there is always more room for a higher love
19:45 Let stuff come up in layers
20:40 To feel and face allows the light beneath to shine through
21:15 old patterns can creep back in
21:48 inner work is VITAL
22:15 the cliche is where all the gems and truths are 🙂
23:45 discussion of loss of community
25:45 Individuals take responsibility to create community
27:50 Living a dream life-Bryan’s response to this
29:00 how are you creating community?
29:44 speaking to the audience
31:35 Going through his own personal chaos
32:15 Adversity builds character
32:34 Partner’s memory loss was extreme, darkest of the dark places, remember the power that we are!
33:37 Love is the answer, many believe we will always suffer
34:19 How can we find peace within the chaos, how can we find peace within?
36:16 It does get better for all of us
36:32 Bryan came to experience divine intelligence expressed through all things, this intelligence wants us to grow
37:58 Practices, what are they? a balance between discipline and flow! Internally directed
40:05 Internally driven, my decisions come from internal references
-how important it becomes to attune to internal compass that we already have
41:33 We all have a different balance, changing sense of balance. Recognize there is no right way to be what may be right for you at one point is not in another, check-in
45:15 In the flow-find out what works for you! Stuff shared by others, learn from it, but go within
45:59 Meditation would benefit everyone~Bryan’s fundamental practice-using meditation as a means to attune ourselves w/our own internal guidance system
48:02 Attuning to and aligning with that internal compass
49:59 If you are listening to highest self, probably not in your comfort zone
51:16 So many variables, do not lean on the external world
52:12 Bryan’s “pitch” We all have a purpose to serve and are here for a reason
54:49 We deserve what we want, we are so worthy
“bring higher awareness -we are infinite spiritual beings, but also we’re human beings with desires”
57:24 Ascend Academy, space for the community to come together and explore everything, Bryan loves finding people to come on and teach and is stepping back into the role as a teacher and leader
58:52 Bryan here to share/teach and give

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Points of Light~Lisa Smith, Advocate, Foster Parent, Mom “All 100 Sheep”

I recently had the distinct pleasure of interviewing Lisa Smith recently on TSC Talks. I met Lisa through a mutual friend, as is explained in the podcast. I was thrilled to do a podcast with another special needs parent and local to Massachusetts. Lisa is a parent of 22 years old Nick, who experiences nonverbal autism, has adopted several children, and over the years has fostered 27. During our interview not only was Lisa able to draw from and articulate profound experiences and topics in such a way as to not only connect them to her lived experience, but she was also able to illustrate how she’s taken the time to integrate and utilize all of it to further evolve as a soul but to also facilitate trust, healing, and connection for all her children, biological, adopted and fostered. Her words tell the story, her faith guides her. One of the most important points of our discussion was the realization that it is not these children that are “lucky to have her,” but it is she that is lucky to have them.

As a special needs parent myself, this awareness was a true turning point in my understanding of this divine assignment where I became the student and realized my children are my teachers, one that Lisa feels and experiences every day.

“It’s biblical, she said at one point “And when I began to read the Bible, I had learned that some of my actual walks in life, were very biblical… There’s a story that says, God got the 99 sheep, but there was one on the hill. He went back for that one. Most people in life. So God has designed me through my journey, not to forget the one.”

Presence, presence, and presence. And to me? Be present. People always say things like, oh, if I win the lottery, I will do that. And I always tell people all the time I won the lottery five times, five children and people say, oh, they’re so lucky to have you, but really….How do I know that I’m going to take care of my disabled son someday? Right? How do I know they’re not there to help me when I become disabled someday? We do not know, you know, so we, you know, and, and we don’t do it for those selfish reasons. So, we don’t do anything to get things, you know, and, and, you know, we do things because that’s who we are and that’s our heart.”

I appreciated this podcast so much and hope you will too. I feel it was put in front of me by my higher self, as sound bite after sound bite so many of Lisa’s words not only related to me personally but also inspired and challenged me. Her faith in God is huge and expansive but she shares honestly the hard truths she’s faced personally to get to where she is now. Thanks, Lisa, for all the ways you are serving a higher calling and being willing to share your journey with me and this audience.

An article about Lisa Smith: https://www.wickedlocal.com/story/archive/2012/04/27/taunton-mom-using-what-she/38199711007/

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